Life: Hong Kong, the Suspiciously Suspicious-Smelling Seaport

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wow, reading this makes me sad. seeing how human interactions are like social exchanges for one another's advantages. i actually want to go back to HK to work after this year....
I know I mentioned this before, but wow, you make Hong Kong sound really scary!

But I honestly think that this air of suspicion permeates major cities in every part of the world, especially if they are very developed countries. Take Singapore for example. I can actually picture the whole suspicion-suspicion mind game working there, and in actual fact, it does, but people have so accepted it as part of their culture that no one notices anymore. It has become part and parcel of their very lives. In fact, I'm guessing this is the situation in Japan as well (but perhaps to a lesser degree?).

Don't turn cynical though! Cliche as this sounds, life is really much more fun when we think positive. I firmly believe that for every bad or mean person that exists in the world, there is another 10 people out there that are good. As I grow older, I have come to realize that the world is not as simple as in fairy tales or movies. But I refuse to lose faith. I still believe that people are good. I still believe in happy endings. (Call me childish, but there you go)

Whenever you feel gloomy, just listen to ayaka. Her songs have a way of putting things back into perspective for people. I know it works for me. =)

And while we're on the topic of songs, do you happen to accept requests for song translations? I have searched high and low for the translation of one particular song, but to no avail. Only knowing 30% of the song's meaning is driving me nuts! Especially when I know its a good song with very good lyrics. I totally understand if you don't want to though, so don't hesitate to say no if you don't feel like doing it.
LOL, please do return! I wrote the post as a personal one-sided observation... There are, of course, really nice people here but it just seems that there are more people who are, well, not-so-nice...

Really though, in writing the post, I was thinking about what makes the Hongkonger tick as I've been caught up and have heard of quite a few very bizarre social interactions and humanitarian arguments since my return to Hong Kong.

In the end though, this may just be a reflection of the company I keep rather than the state of the city in general. Perhaps the thing about this is that people in Hong Kong make no qualms about telling you their motives, which is why sometimes it may grow a little odd.

Still though, you may experience it very different from me and may, after returning here, conclude that my post is total bullocks... LOL. So yea, don't be sad, get glad! (right... you know what I mean...) (^___^")
LOL, I do make it sound a little scary don't I? But I guess that was not the point... I was really just trying to make sense of some of the oddities that I found myself in or have heard about since I came back...

As for the thing with most major cities, I guess there is some degree of truth in that although I still find Hong Kong to be a little over-the-top in its expression of suspicion. Singapore has a reputation (and Singaporeans will surely admit) that their reactions are more stereotypically constructed along the lines of "kia su" (^___^).

It seems less like they are trying to manipulate each other and more like they just want to make sure they get out looking on top (Lee Kuan Yew's running around and giving insulting speeches clearly doesn't help that image... LOL, I still remember how he was chased out of Hong Kong after he came here and told the city to "return to the farmers you are"...). To continue the two cities' "healthy rivalry", two Singaporean ladies decided to go to Youtube to discuss how Singapore is better than Hong Kong and, in return, a band of girls in Hong Kong decided to respond in kind.

I am certainly not trying to say that Hong Kong is unique in being cynical but perhaps it's the blatantness of how it's expressed that makes me wonder. There are few places where people will casually straight up tell you that, in the interest of time, their exact motives and goals for interacting with you - even if you never guessed it. Really, I never thought that there would be any motive in interacting with me, but they would tell me and therefore not allow me the opportunity to think they were really just being nice.

In that way, the whole air of suspicion therefore rises to the surface and becomes very obvious -- so that's probably where I feel a little uncomfortable. So, because having a motive seems so normal on the surface, it's hard to imagine someone without one -- so everyone is automatically assumed to have a motive (I've been told what my motives are even when I honestly had none!). So yea, I still try to make sure that I don't try to be overly suspicious, but it's hard sometimes... LOL

So yea, ayaka's music has done wonders to me and has allowed me to see the brighter side of things in the world we live in. Her messages certainly seem applicable anywhere and that's why I relate so much to her lyrics and singing, LOL. (^___^") Thanks for the advice though!

And finally, yes, I do accept requests for song translations (^___^) So long as I either have the CD or will buy the CD, I could do the song and since I do grab a good number of J-pop, I may have the song you are asking for. So do request and I'll happily churn something up! I really do enjoy translating, so I will happily do it! (^___^)v
I so agree with the "kia su" comment. LOL

And I had no either there was actually a rivalry going on between Singapre and HK. Thanks for enlightening me on that. But now that I think about, it shouldn't really be a surprise, because they do strike me as 'that type' of people.

It's actually quite amusing. You have just made my day. Can't wait to go home and share this trivial fact with my family. And we'll all have a good laugh.

And yes, ayaka is amazing. Speaking of which, have u listened to 'Anata Ito'? It lives up to normal ayaka standards (which basically means its amazing), though as usual I can only grasp 20% of the song's meaning. Go give it a listen and see whether its worthy of being on your songs-to-translate list?

=)


LOL, I am glad that you got a good laugh out of that! (^___^)

And yea, I have listened to anata to, the PV actually made me all-teary eyed at the end! So beautiful!! (^___^) Really though, I would love to translate anything without attributing worth since "worth" is such a very subjective thing. I would translate every Japanese song under the sun if I had the chance and the resources to do it, but I don't... LOL (^___^)

Still though, I know what you meant and thank you for your kind words! (^___^) Anyway, since when has anything related to ayaka been unworthy of me putting effort into translating it? LOL... I even ended up purchasing the three DVD set of Band Bank with great artists yesterday...

The store keeper was saying it was very popular but saw that I wasn't sure about buying it since I was close to busting my budget already -- so he began listing out the artists involved and the moment I heard "ayaka", the money was on his cash register even before he could add another word... LOL (^__^")

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